Leaving comments to my post on

picking up women with an envy plotline

, a reader asks:

Hey Chase,

I have received along with a girl We found in a cafe.

That signifies my personal very first set actually from time video game!

It wasn’t super straightforward for the girl in bed but I was able.

She is gorgeous, really wise, great personality, pretty good body- remarkable woman.

The thing which shocks me personally is this:

After sleeping together, we casually asked her exactly how many lovers she actually is had prior to. I usually try this and do not come across as judgemental, so chicks always provide me personally the list, such as men who don’t “really depend”

Thus I learn she actually is already been truthful with and freely opened up. She said she had one severe date that is certainly it. One companion only.

I asked “think about any informal crazy adventures? Some naughty activity at events or something?” She chuckled and said she actually is in no way a celebration kinda of individual. She can take in socially but never ever got drunk and passed and she despises clubs.

I assume what actually confuses me is: if she’s informing reality, why on earth would a sexy woman like their maybe not hook-up? Men check always the woman out constantly, I’m certain they need to have struck on her behalf. It really is easy on her to own sex, yet she states she just had one significant date.

It does not make sense in my experience due to the fact stunning females may intercourse on need, why on the planet would she not use that possibility?

It really is interesting the range of expectations you see among males for what gorgeous women’s sex resides must appear like.

You will find guys just who expect the most wonderful women are almost virginal. There may be others just who expect them to be total nymphomaniacs.

The specific truth obviously is gorgeous ladies are like regular ladies.

Obtained the same sort of assortment in intimate inclinations and knowledge you discover into the general population of ladies: some with quite a few fans, some with couple of, many somewhere in the center… aided by the extra angle that as women have more stunning, they

development toward

less overall life time gender associates.

But… exactly why?

Why would not these women, given the chance to connect with many hot men, indulge?

Or, on the bright side, considering the capability to

not

must hook-up, the reason why wouldn’t they stay virgins till marriage?